I had to look twice to see your little green light! What a surprise. Nice to see you, good to know you are ok. I'm moving back to NZ in October; we'll be somehow "closer" . lol. Anyway, I'm glad everything's going well. Thanks for the update. Nic.[Travellerme]
Your mother reminds me in some ways of my own mother. Mothers have a curious habit sometimes of wishing to shut their eyes to what is right in front of their nose. It can't possibly have escaped your mother's notice over the years that this has featured in your life, but parents seem to get really funny about "telling" people : counsellors, therapists, support groups - or maybe it's just our parents. Your realisation that you are you and not just your parents' daughter is one of those lonely moments in life where realisation dawns and you start on a new kind of journey. I say to you, if you think any of these things will be good for you, then do them. You need to speak with people who understand what is happening to you, how it feels and can help you the best way they know how.[Travellerme]
